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Ladies, The Reason You Could Be Single Is Because You’re Too Smart.

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A new study has found that men are attracted to intelligent women in theory – but not in practice! They like the idea of smart women, but the moment a woman appears to be smarter than the man, the man backs off, because he sees her as a threat to his masculinity!
Researchers from the University of Buffalo, the University of Texas, and the California Lutheran University conducted a series of experiments with 105 male participants.
First, the men were given a make-believe scenario where a woman outperformed them in either maths or English. They were then asked to rate that woman as a potential love interest. The study’s authors said that the men showed more interest in the smarter women.
However, the next experiment was putting the men face to face with a number of different women. The researchers found that the men would distance themselves from women who did better than them on a hypothetical IQ test. They would also rate the smarter women as less attractive and were less enthusiastic about asking for their numbers or planning a date with them.
The authors of the study concluded that the men feel like their masculinity is being threatened when they come face to face with women who are smarter then them. However, more evidence is definitely required, since the study’s sample size was pretty small. 

Things you need to know about flirting

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If your default flirting technique is mumbling incoherently into a pint of Heineken, sweating and then shuffling off to a dark corner, you may need some help.

Luckily, flirting expert Jean Smith is on hand to guide you through the tricky world of chatting someone up.

Here are her top tips on flawless flirtation:

1. Don’t judge a book by its cover
Wait until you ask – or are asked - one question before making a judgement about someone. The minute you see someone across a room, you’ve chosen them on a superficial basis. You may label someone, thinking ‘I like them’, and immediately feel pressure. If you start a conversation, and think “Oh, actually I don’t like them”, you’ve put pressure on them.

2. You only have a certain amount of energy in a situation, don’t use it on being self-conscious
Put your energy on the other person and you won’t feel awkward – also, people like it when you pay attention to them. Instead of thinking “Oh I wonder what he’s thinking,” actually listen and pay attention to the other person.

3. Stay present
Don’t go five steps ahead of the situation and try to figure out what’s going to happen – you’ll never know.

4. Eye contact
The more eye contact someone gives you – the more they like you. Of course, in general conversation people will make eye contact with you, so use this easy acronym to figure out whether it’s flirty or friendly:
Frequency – how often do they look at you?
Length of time – how long do they look at you for?
Intensity – how intense is the eye contact?
Gesture – is there an additional gesture,do they touch their hair/face or lick their lips?

5. Don’t put yourself on a platform to be judged by others
If you’re going into flirting to get a confidence boost from the other person, you’ll end up disappointed. It’s your job to make you feel good about yourself.

6. Don’t try and be someone you’re not
You want them to like the real ‘you’, not the ‘you’ you’re pretending to be.

7. You’re not going to match with everyone...
...and that’s fine. It’s actually a good thing. If you’re trying to flirt with someone and it’s not working out, that’s for the best, move on to the next person.

8. You will be rejected. Accept it/
While researching flirting in London, Jean met one participant who said: “English flirting is based around not being rejected.” You will get rejected, you will reject others. But if you go into flirting fearful, you’re bound to come across awkward.  

Why Your Best Friend’s Wedding Is The Most Special Event Ever

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Believe it or not, it's time already. Your best friend is getting married. You have seen it coming all this while, but it's still a lot to process. But now that it's happening, it's time to make the most of it! After all, it's your best friend's wedding! This is an event that you are going to cherish just as much as she is. Here's why your BFF's wedding is the most special event EVER!

1. It's a perfect reunion.
You have had a lot of common friends over the years, and many have fallen out of touch thanks to busy work schedules. Now however, all of you have an excuse to get together for a few days of pure fun! And what better way to do it that over good food and lots of masti, right?


2. You realise just how close you are to your BFF.
You have had her back through many things before, but this is something else altogether. The emotional turmoil your friend goes through during this period is immense, and the way you help her ride through it all will give your friendship a whole new meaning.


3. You get to give her the best gift ever - by organising a perfect wedding for her!
As her BFF you have a long list of things to do in the run up to the wedding. Right from choosing the venue to helping her zero in on the right clothes, cards, menu - you name it! After all you know her so well, only you can make sure the event matches up to her dream wedding.


4. You get to throw the greatest bachelorette party in history!
Over the years, you have had many discussions about this. You've talked about the kind that you'll throw for each other, and you've even reviewed the ones you've been to for each other's entertainment! But this one? This one will be the best there ever has been.


5. ...and then follow it up with an equally awesome  Sangeet.
You owe it to your best friend. She thinks you're awesome, and now is the time to prove her right! Not only are you the best organiser, you're also the one who'll get the party started!


6. You get to make beautiful memories together.
This wedding is going to be a special memory for both you and your friend. A lot of things are going to change. Some for the better, some not so much. But either ways, helping her get through a nerve wracking emotional time is bound to bring you closer.


7. After the bride, the next most important person is you! 
The bride trusts you the most, so the bride's family trusts you the most. They've all seen you stick it out with her through the rough patches, so they all rely on your instructions and suggestions. Even the give you a little special treatment.


8. All the things that go wrong are hilarious in hindsight and make for great stories.
There's good food, there are lots of people and here and there is a possibility of getting drunk. Things are bound to go wrong, and that too, hilariously!


9. You get to meet a lot of nice, new people.
Contrary to what it looks like, a wedding is a lot more than just one night. There are a lot of ceremonies, and lots and lots of guests for each one. While on the one hand you need to deal with them all, you also get to mingle with a lot of nice, new people.


10. And who knows, maybe this is where you meet your special someone!
You know what they say, all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. Go ahead and enjoy your time with all those new people. Who knows, the cute guy over there might just be the one you're waiting for!


As your sister/bestie goes through bouts of excitement and panic before her wedding, so will you. This is one wedding you've been planning for years. You've even played the perfect match-maker for this jodi.

News courtesy: ScoopWhoop

18 Signs You're With the Man You Should Marry

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1. He always brags about you.

If you get a promotion at work or even just win concert tickets, he can't resist telling everyone you hang out with before you even think to mention it. Because he's your biggest fan (arguably next to your mom).

2. He makes sacrifices for you - and you're happy to do the same for him. He'll move cities to live with you if you get a new job or finish grad school. You're happy to make the next move for one of his opportunities.

3. He shares the same values as you. You know you both want kids and expect to split the child care equally. Or maybe you know you both want kids and he wants to take extended paternity leave. Maybe you've also agreed that you should each get 45 minutes to yourself to go to the gym every day, or you plan to buy a home and move to the suburbs in five years. You know you're on the same page with things that matter most to you because you've discussed them.

4. Even after years together he still does little chivalrous things for you. Like open doors for you, or carry you to your doorstep when your feet hurt after wearing high heels all day and you just can't bear to walk one more block.

5. He doesn't try to change you. He knows you're messier than him, that you always need a pet cat, and can't cook to save your life, and all of that is all right by him.

6. When you think about marrying him, the best part isn't the wedding, it's the idea of spending your lives together.
The wedding is fun, but you really can't wait for the two weeks right after when you'll get uninterrupted honeymoon time.

7. You survived a long-distance relationship.

It was hard and scary, but you love each other so much that you were able to make the necessary sacrifices to make it through with a singular goal in mind: living in the same place and being together when it was all over.

8. "I miss you" isn't just a sweet thing you say. It's a reality. Even if it hasn't been that long (like, two hours) since you saw each other.

9. You don't like having a roommate and love having your own space, but you'd still prefer to live with him. You look forward to the end of the day, not because you'll be done with work but because you'll get to see him again.

10. He's your go-to person whenever you have a story to share, about work, about friends, about anything.
You used to tell your parents and friends about all these things, but now you don't call them quite as much as you used to. They don't mind because they see how happy you are.

11. You feel comfortable planning things six months - or a year - into the future. You're not worried you'll have to cancel plane tickets or say you won't be needing a plus-one after all. You feel that confident in your relationship.

12. You can cry in front of him without feeling embarrassed. He knows when to worry and when you're just caught up in a scene of a movie.

13. When your friends complain about their significant others or the guys they've gone out with, you get kind of quiet because you don't have much to contribute.

You don't want to brag, but you just don't have to deal with any of that nonsense because your significant other is great to you.

14. He's close with your family, and he's made sure you've gotten to know his. He'll call your dad or your grandma without any hesitation. It just makes sense that you'd go to his nephew's birthday party, even if he's not there.

15. He cares about your friends. If one of them is having a bad day, he suggests you go spend time with her or invite her to join the two of you for dinner. If he hasn't heard someone's name in a while, he asks how she's doing.

16. He lets you vent. Sometimes when something frustrates you, you just need to go over it again and again. He doesn't get annoyed at this, and he dismisses your apologies. The only thing that bothers him about the situation is that you're upset and he wishes you weren't.

17. He tells you, out of the blue, that you look hot. And it's on the day you didn't dry your hair or put on makeup or even change out of your T-shirt and sweatpants.

18. You can do things like travel together without fighting all the time. We've all seen (or been) that tragic couple fighting over where to get lunch at the airport so badly that one of them devolves into tears and puts her shades on indoors and lies across three seats in the terminal. You can do tedious things with your S.O. without all this fighting.

Source: Cosmopolitan

People Revealed The Reason Behind Their Break-Ups

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1. He didn’t leave her with much of a choice, did he?

His ex showed up and told her she was having his baby

2. That doesn’t really make him a jerk, though.

Because he was a jerk and he only wanted to have sex so I broke up with him..

3. At least you know that you don’t know.

Because I am a mess and unsure of what I want.

4. He totally brought that on himself.

Because he would make plans with me and blow me off at the last minute.

5. Can’t exactly blame him.

 he became disinterested because I wasn't ready to have sex with him

6. Fair enough.

Because I was still in love with my ex and wasn't ready for another person

7. Cowardice personified.

Her parents wouldn't let her date me for religious reasons.

8. Hope you find your Pluto someday.

She's wasn't as goofy and care free as I am

9. In any case, you both got what you deserved.

I cheated and never told him. The guilt ate me alive. I let him go.

10. Too bad.

he wouldn't tell his family about me

11. Am I the only one to whom this sounded funny?

he couldn't give me what he said I needed

12. Not too many options in that case, are there?

He was too controlling and the distance was tearing us apart.

13. I bet he was Indian.

he was gay and I was the cover up.

14. Much insecurity. Such WOW.

He got jealous of how much I loved Prince... Yeah, the singer Prince.

15. Okay. No comments there.

My sex drive was way bigger than his. He couldn't handle it in the end.

16. At least you both did your best.

I wasn't happy in that relationship. He tried very hard and I gave him my best but I still wasn't ever happy. I guess it's my fault.

17. Remotely reminds me of Nick and Amy Dunne.

I was tired of supporting him while he continued to quit his jobs because he wanted to play video games.

18. WASN’T ALLOWED? Excuse me?

He got really clingy and started telling me I wasnt allowed to wear make up or straighten my hair

19. Hope you kicked him once before breaking up with him.

He was way to manipulative and took out his negative emotions on me. Made me feel stupid and guilty for having my own opinions and beliefs.

20. Just one word: OUCH.

She broke up with me because apparently she
Source: MensXP
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